4.1 Little Adult, Big Expectations: The Eldest Daughter Experience

Listen to this episode from R U O'Cake? on Spotify. ⭐ Theme 4 : Big Sister Advice ⭐ In this episode, Ebony and May dive into what it’s really like growing up as the eldest daughters in their families. From childhood memories to the pressures of being a role model, they unpack the best moments and realisations they found that come with the title of “eldest daughter.” Tune in as they share: - Thoughts on the idea that eldest daughters are seen as the “second mum” - The truth about Eldest Daughter Syndrome—expectations, independence, and pressure - How being the eldest daughter shapes relationships, friendships, travel, and adult life Whether you’re an older sibling yourself, curious about what it’s like to be us (jk), or just here for a fun listen, this episode is full of laughs, relatability, and cute stories Disclaimer: We both grew up in heteronormal family dynamics where traditional gender roles were more often than not assumed. We cannot speak for anything besides our experiences but we absolutely welcome stories from diverse family dynamics and interpretations of gender roles. 💬 If you enjoyed today’s convo, don’t forget to rate, share, and spread the word! 📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @ruocake.pod Thanks for tuning in—and here’s to all the eldest daughters out there 💛 💗 . . . Resources Loop Earplugs: https://au.loopearplugs.com/