The Gifts of Heartbreak, Conscious Relating & Sourcing Inner Freedom - with Andre Duqum | Deja Blu EP 116

Listen to this episode from Deja Blu podcast on Spotify. Click here to check out Andre’s Podcasting Course! http://www.podcastpurpose.com/deja-blu   Use Code: BLU at checkout   Hello Beautiful Blubirds, Andre Duqum is the host of the Know Thyself podcast and someone I have spent 3 years in an intimate relationship with. Join us as we open up about what it means to navigate life beyond intimacy, while co-creating and weaving together from the heart. We also have a surprise handpan set for you beautiful humans to enjoy at the end.   Get cozy and come along our journey with us.    This podcast is sponsored by: MUD/WTR   Use Code BLU to save $20 off your purchase (and receive free goodies too ;) mudwtr.com/blu   MUD WTR is a coffee alternative consisting of 100% organic cacao, ayurvedic herbs and functional mushrooms. With just a fraction of the caffeine found in coffee, you get energy, focus and immune support without the jitters, crash or poor sleep.   ===   Timestamps: 1:52 - MUD/WTR Sponsor 3:05 - Welcome 6:25 - Andre 7:08 - Snippet into our past relationship 9:07 - Navigating Grace in community 12:36 - Holding a safe space to process 13:36 - Accepting the stories within another without judgment 15:35 - What it means to truly listen 19:03 - The REAL real, is where growth and potential can happen 20:22 - What it means to take full ownership of your experience 22:36 - Impact the world by being your most Liberated Self 24:08 - The other relationship 24:49 - Blu's reclaiming 27:46 - Returning energy back to oneself for ultimate wholeness 30:05 - Freedom in the face of any relationship 33:49 - Leadership from behind the throne 36:35 - The practices of consistency 38:25 - Aligning our nature with nature’s nature 40:52 - Meditation as a tool for creating a powerful framework for living your best life 44:03 - Connecting to something greater than ourselves 45:56 - What has led to your deep spiritual integration? 46:42 - The pleasure of a concentrated mind 49:28 - The art of stillness 51:06 - Relationship as a clean mirror to see your reflection in the other 55:10 - The dance between masculine and feminine 56:39 - The importance of genuine brotherhood and reverence for the feminine 1:00:47 - Gathering in groups, processing life, and being witnessed 1:02:07 - Listening to the greater intelligence 1:04:53 - Women want to feel safe and men want to feel free 1:12:05 - Freedom into unconditional love 1:18:16 - A reminder that love can take on new forms  1:18:55 - Andre has been working on a course! 1:23:43 - Thank you 1:24:30 - Andre's closing words 1:25:23 - Play and Pray 1:26:36 - Closing 1:27:50 - Playing the Handpan together    ===   André Duqum developed a passion for story-telling through content creation early on when he realized the power it can have on people. Video storytelling has the capacity to be a tool that uplifts & inspires or it can spread unconsciousness and fear.   Having a strong calling to contribute to the rise in consciousness that is happening on this planet, he created Meraki Media - a production company aimed at uplifting the voices of societies’ game-changers, rule-breakers and light-workers.   Connect more with Andre: www.knowthyself.one   ===   Blu is a motivational speaker, artist, musician & host of the Deja Blu Podcast with over 4 million listeners worldwide, interviewing some of the most prolific spiritual leaders of our generation. She is the co-founder of Florescence, a modern mystery school which connects a global community of women in sisterhood through online sharing circles & in-person events. BLU: https://www.instagram.com/bluofearth/ https://www.bluofearth.com/ https://www.florescence.earth/ DONATE TO THE DEJA BLU PODCAST: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VACWQVBHTCQ3Q