"In Your Neediness, You Repel" - External Validation 101

Listen to this episode from Big Conversations with Haley Hoffman Smith on Spotify. Let's talk about neediness, completion energy, and the REAL core source of the validation we seek -- and, the energetic implications of the need for external validation. I hope some major breakthroughs are sparked!  JOIN THE DREAMAWAY MEMBERSHIP 🌙  https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway  January 2025 | External Validation Month Programming   External Validation: As Within, So Without | Saturday, January 11th 2:30-4:00pm ET | We all desire external validation in numerous forms - in our relationships, in our careers, in posting online - it’s human! However, dependence upon external validation can create a lot of pain and a deep emotional void. How many times have you stopped yourself from doing something because you didn’t get external validation? How many times have you done something that wasn’t authentic to SEEK external validation? In this highly potent 90-minute session, we’ll be healing the External Validation wound and turning it all inward - because the more we feel totally complete on our own and can validate ourselves, the more peace we feel, and the more validation we attract (but we don’t even need it anymore!).    Money Date: Scarcity Detox [Abundance & Serenity This Year & Beyond] | We’ve all been there - that feeling of NEEDING money and being in scarcity energy. And, the more scarce we feel, the more scarcity we attract! NO MORE! In this money date, we’ll be addressing those feelings head on and detoxing them, to come to a space of total money serenity for the year ahead. The more at peace we feel, the more abundance flows in!    Visualization: VALIDATION IV | In this powerful visualization, you’ll be led ‘living in the end’ style to truly FEEL the emotional impact of the validation you seek. What if you can create those same feelings within? The brain can’t tell the difference between a real and an imagined experience, and this will prime your brain to believe you’re already receiving the validation that may seem scarce in your day-to-day life. As within, so without…get ready for some energetic changes as a result. PSSST - you’re actually only ever seeking your own validation anyway. | Tuesday, January 14th at 4:00pm ET    Bonus Session: WORRY ERASER | Monday, January 27th 7-8pm ET - Let’s create deep feelings of peace. Show up to this bonus session ready to let worry dissolve, disappear, and fade away, because what if everything is taken care of? Mindset experts say to dissolve the problem, turn your attention away from it. This is hard when our subconscious minds are hyper focused on incessant worrying to try to keep us safe. When we tap on our worries, not only do we feel SO much better, but we expedite the Best Case Scenario unfolding.