Stop Repeating Old Patterns: Attachment Styles in Love & Divorce Recovery

Listen to this episode from The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club on Spotify. Do your relationships keep triggering old wounds? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club, therapist Melissa Lapides breaks down how anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up after divorce—and how to finally heal them.Whether you’re newly divorced, co-parenting, or opening your heart to love again, this conversation will help you stop repeating painful patterns and reclaim your emotional power.🔑 Key Themes & TakeawaysWhat attachment wounds are and how they form in childhoodHow anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up in love and divorceWhy sitting with emotions leads to deeper healingPractical tools to separate real needs from emotional triggersHow to stop letting old wounds bleed into new relationships⏱️ Episode Timestamps00:00 Intro02:22 Understanding attachment wounds05:28 Navigating separation & divorce06:21 Healing through self-awareness in divorce08:10 The role of mirroring in relationships09:01 Communicating needs in relationships21:27 Embracing acceptance in relationships22:10 The power of communication & compromise25:01 Nonviolent communication techniques29:13 Building emotional resilience30:48 Self-discovery & personal growth after divorce33:34 Navigating new relationships post-divorce🌟 Resources & LinksJoin The Club: A Divorce Community to Help You Get Clear, Get Grounded & Move Forward👉 Grab your spot nowConnect with Melissa Lapides  (Licensed Psychotherapist & Founder of Securely Attached)Website: getsecurelyattached.comInstagram: @getsecurelyattachedConnect with The Crazy Ex-Wife’s ClubInstagram: @thecrazyexwivesclubFacebook: The Crazy Ex-Wife’s ClubWebsite: thecrazyexwivesclub.com✨✨✨✨✨If this episode resonated, don’t keep it to yourself—follow the podcast, share it with a friend, and join The Club for ongoing support on your healing journey.