How to Stop Chasing Unavailable Men and Magnetize a Devoted Husband with Mel Wells | 58

Listen to this episode from This Tantric Life with Layla Martin on Spotify. ShownotesWhy the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in loveThe hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a motherWhy rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosenHow the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationshipsWhy we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts usMel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying aloneBioMel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and intimacy they deeply crave by fully understanding and embodying their feminine power, unlocking their wild magnetism and irresistible energy. Mel also mentors ambitious, spiritually driven women to scale their businesses by harnessing the power of their feminine energy and unique superpowers. Through her work, Mel helps women thrive in both love and leadership, embodying their most authentic and radiant selves.Timestamps00:01:33 - Guest introduction00:04:29 - The archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love00:07:34 - Why we think of feminine energy as less powerful00:08:04 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com00:09:56 - Mel shares about the relationship that sent her into a deep portal of reflection00:13:22 - If his energy isn’t pursuing you, he’s disqualified00:16:32 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic00:17:16 - Mel and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC00:20:25 - Men go after what they want00:21:38 - If he’s not moving towards you, it’s not your job to figure it out00:25:47 - Rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen00:26:02 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples00:28:34 - We choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us00:31:40 - Mel explains the feminine archetypes and how they impact dating00:35:33 - Why it’s important to listen deeply to your universal path00:39:23 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss00:43:04 - Finding delight in wherever you are on your dating journey00:46:40 - Never discount the possibility of being fully chosen at every stage in your life00:48:19 - You can be a female entrepreneur AND be filled with life and magic00:51:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:54:18 - When you mother your partner, he will show up as a child00:54:54 - The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother00:57:46 - Mel’s advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone01:00:47 - A practice for switching from the Huntress archetype to the Queen01:02:01 - A practice for shifting from the Mother archetype to the Lover01:03:27 - Conclusion