My Polycule Imploded & I Got Locked Out (Literally)

Listen to this episode from The Unmasked Project on Spotify. 🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!This week, Layla sits down with Naat—a fan-turned-social-media-slaya—for a brutally honest deep dive into her very first (and very dramatic) polycule.What starts with a locked door at a lifestyle party ends in heartbreak, healing, and a hot mess of jealousy, boundaries, and group chat tension. Naat spills everything: the friend-group-turned-polycule, watching her boyfriend hook up across the room, and the moment she realized… maybe poly just isn’t her vibe.But it’s not all drama—there’s flirting, forgiveness, and a whole lot of boots-the-house-down Gen Z slang. (Yes, we’re saying Boots now. Slay is over. Apparently.)Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or ENM-curious, this episode is your permission slip to feel it all—jealousy, joy, and the chaos in between.💥 In this episode:From fan to team member: how Naat joined The Unmasked inner circleLocked out at a lifestyle party and finding polyam fam vibesFirst-time polycule: roommate romance and the friend group falloutWatching your ex hook up in the same room—and staying chill(ish)The unsexy truth about poly breakups and staying in the same friend circleCuck queen confessions, background checks, and bad Twitter menWhy communication is everything—and honest communication is moreBoundary fails, party faux pas, and that time Naat turned the lights on mid-gangbangTaking people as they are—not their potential (ouch)Layla’s take on poly growth, heartbreak, and loving someone through their breakup⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Fan turned social media slay-ess: Meet Naat 0:54 – Gen Z slang audit: Slay is out, Boots is in 1:24 – That one lifestyle party with a locked door (and fate) 2:51 – Nat’s first polycule: friends, hookups, and chaos 4:30 – Breakups, boundaries, and bad communication 6:07 – Poly heartbreak: "Maybe this isn’t for me" 7:17 – Dating the roommate and hooking up in the friend group 9:05 – Trying to stay friends after a messy breakup 10:57 – The “I walked in on them” moment—ouch 13:04 – Layla on poly, soulmates, and the “Devil Woman” effect 16:32 – Jealousy vs. anger and how to talk through it 20:05 – Being cute-jealous vs. being a problem 23:34 – Cuck queen problems and red tape reclaiming 26:05 – Boundaries, broken agreements, and too-long hookups 30:36 – Light switch mishap during a birthday gangbang 31:50 – Advice for poly newbies: Figure out your why 33:20 – When your partner sets time limits on your other dates 35:00 – Condoms, double standards, and imaginary flowers 38:30 – Favorite part of the lifestyle? Flirting. Duh. 40:00 – Finding your crew and building the community you want 43:00 – Final thoughts on jealousy, love, and lessons learned🔗 Links & Love: 💬 Join our Discord: https://discord.com/invite/TPBUgSxzwb🌶️ Products we love: https://www.unmaskedpod.co/products-we-love📸 Follow us on IG: @theunmasked_project🎵 TikTok chaos: @themaskedswingers🎧 Listen on Spotify: The Unmasked Project📧 Send your juicy stories: [email protected]