How to Stop Being the Second Option: Dating with Confidence, Setting Boundaries, and Moving On Ep. 47

Listen to this episode from Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men on Spotify. Are you tired of feeling like someone’s backup plan in your dating life? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about complicated romantic situations, building self-confidence, and setting healthy boundaries.From navigating “work spouse” dynamics and emotional gray areas to overcoming social anxiety with women and learning to trust yourself after heartbreak, Gracie and Tracy offer no-nonsense advice to help you take control of your love life. Whether you’re struggling to move on from a relationship, worried about making social mistakes, or wondering if you should pursue someone who’s already taken, this episode is packed with actionable insights and tough love.Show Notes:[00:00] Welcome & Updates: Gracie and Tracy share personal updates, including an upcoming trip to Ireland and behind-the-scenes podcast planning.[04:00] Listener Submission #1: “Am I the Second Option?” — Advice for men caught in complicated relationships, why pursuing someone who’s unavailable is a losing game, and how to protect your self-respect.[18:00] The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Launch: Introducing a new tool for single men to track, reflect, and improve their dating experiences.[20:00] Listener Submission #2: “Social Mistakes with Women” — How to handle awkwardness, why confidence is really about self-trust, and why women care less about your blunders than you think.[35:00] Listener Submission #3: “Trust Issues After a Breakup” — Rebuilding trust in yourself, letting go of relationships that no longer serve you, and why your future happiness depends on your own decisions.[50:00] Key Takeaways: Why boundaries, self-awareness, and emotional resilience are the real keys to dating success.[52:00] Call to Action: Rate, review, and share the podcast; follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie.Resources Mentioned:The Self-Made Man Dating Journal: Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! Got a question for Gracie and Tracy? Submit it for a chance to be featured in a future episode.