Divorce Often Starts With An Unready Husband | Themba Tom Ntuli, DJ Magbe Magabaza, Jabu Zwane

Listen to this episode from That Husband Podcast on Spotify. Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 35: HUSBAND PREPARATION Marriage has a way of waking us up to realities we never imagined. Many of us stepped into it unprepared, thinking love and good intentions would be enough, only to collide with the weightiness of responsibility, our hidden wounds, and the expectations we never knew we carried. In this episode, four husbands sit down to have the kind of raw, unfiltered conversation every man needs: about the struggles we didn’t anticipate, the fears we never admitted, and the slow realisation that being a husband requires more than just showing up. We talk about the baggage we brought into marriage, fatherlessness, trauma, detachment, and the unspoken pressure to “just figure it out.” We open up about the moments that humbled us: when conflict revealed our lack of capacity, when our wives’ strength challenged our fragile egos, and when our unresolved past showed up in our homes. These are not polished stories; they are scars carried into manhood that still ache. But in the telling, there is healing. This is a podcast by husbands, for husbands. Not to give you a five-step formula, but to remind you that you are not alone in your confusion, your failures, or your longing to grow. We are men in process, imperfect, often overwhelmed, but committed to failing forward together. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re the only one struggling, this conversation is for you. Pull up a chair, listen in, and let’s walk this journey of husbandhood side by side. Get in touch with us - [email protected] FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #husbandlife #realmenrealtalk #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #marriagejourney #MenInMarriage #marriagestruggles #marriagehealing #faithfulhusbands #marriagegrowth #marriagereality #mensupportingmen #MarriageReflections #marriageconversations #menoffaith #MarriageAndFaith #MarriageCommunity #marriagechallenges #marriagehelp #Husbandhood #marriagesupport #marriagewisdom #failingforward