From Public Shaming to Second Chances: Navigating Modern Dating Drama (Ep. 38)

Listen to this episode from Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men on Spotify. In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful listener submissions about dating challenges, online reputation, and moving on after heartbreak. They offer no-nonsense advice on handling public shaming in online groups, building momentum with a newly single neighbor, and recovering from a whirlwind romance that ended abruptly. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help men reflect and grow in their dating lives.Show Notes:00:00 – IntroductionGracie and Tracy welcome listeners and celebrate 38 weeks of the podcast.Quick banter about pregnancy timelines and podcast milestones.02:00 – Listener Submission #1: Anthony’s StoryAnthony shares his experience of being publicly shamed in a women’s Facebook group after a breakup.Gracie and Tracy discuss the origins and current state of “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups.Advice on handling online defamation, reclaiming self-trust, and whether to pursue legal action.Key takeaway: Let your integrity and self-awareness guide you, and don’t let drama-filled groups define your dating future.25:00 – Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating JournalGracie and Tracy introduce their new journal for single men, available on Amazon.The journal helps track dates, reflect on experiences, and build self-awareness.28:00 – Listener Submission #2: Alex’s StoryAlex, new to dating, wonders if he missed his chance with a neighbor after helping her through a tough time.The hosts discuss the importance of momentum, meaningful interactions, and not overthinking timing.Advice: Focus on genuine conversations, set healthy boundaries, and don’t attach expectations to every interaction.40:00 – Listener Submission #3: Jake’s StoryJake describes a fast-moving, long-distance romance that ended suddenly after a deep connection.Gracie and Tracy explain “emotional fast-tracking” and the risks of future-tripping in new relationships.Advice: Let relationships unfold at a natural pace, integrate emotional lessons, and practice patience as you move forward.Self-Made Man Dating Journal Self-Made Man: Dating Journal for Men | Track Confidence, Patterns & Reflections | Build Self-Mastery, Emotional Intelligence & Intentional Dating Habits | Personal Growth JournalGet Gracie’s Free Guides at: 👉https://datingwithgracie.com/Check out the Dating With Gracie Community at: 👉⁠https://www.skool.com/dating/about⁠Want to be featured on the podcast? Submit your story & question: 👉  "Just Ask Her" Podcast SubmissionFollow for more honest, no-fluff dating advice: 📲 ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠TikTok⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠