Would you date a bisexual man? Unpacking The "Downlow" Paradox | Khadija Mbowe

Listen to this episode from Khadija Mbowe on Spotify. Would you date a bisexual man? In this episode, Khadija Mbowe takes on the taboo with a sharp, culturally grounded breakdown of “The Downlow Paradox.” From a viral 2019 Glamour survey to a moment in HBO’s Insecure, she explores why many women (regardless of orientation) still apply a double standard to men’s sexual history. What does it mean when masculinity and queerness collide in silence? Why is it “different for women”? Featuring cultural references, expert quotes, and personal insight, this episode is a deep dive into shame, identity, and the politics of attraction.