Our Response to Aubrey Marcus Podcast, Monogamy, & Polyamory | #17

Listen to this episode from Conscious Creators on Spotify. In this episode, we sit down to reflect on Aubrey Marcus’s recent podcast featuring his wife Vylana, their partner Alana, and a rabbi who introduces the concept of “radical monogamy.” It’s a vulnerable conversation on love, commitment, and non-traditional relationship dynamics and it stirred a lot in both of us.We explore:- How we personally experience monogamy, choice, and emotional safety- What jealousy has taught us, and the difference between healing through love vs. stretching beyond your capacity- The complex balance between freedom and commitment- And how past wounds can influence the partnerships we accept or seekWe share our honest thoughts, personal stories, and the questions that surfaced for us around power dynamics, spiritual language, and emotional truth in intimate relationships.Ultimately, this is a conversation about love in all its forms and how to stay rooted in your own values while staying open to different paths.Chapters(00:00) – Initial Impressions of the Aubrey Marcus Episode(02:12) – Respect vs. Discomfort in Polyamorous Relationships(04:20) – Aubrey’s “Download” in Egypt: Divine or Delusion?(05:44) – Emotional Systems and Masculine Capacity in Poly(08:01) – Power Dynamics, Authenticity, and the Language of Love(11:54) – The Cost of Subservience to Love(13:57) – Choosing One: The Sacredness of Monogamy(15:13) – Jealousy, Triggers, and Healing in Unusual Containers(16:45) – Polyamory, Fear of Commitment, and Spiritual Spin(18:11) – Radical Honesty and the Capacity to Face Shadows(19:16) – True Love as Devotion, Not Unlimited Freedom(21:00) – Cultural Constructs, Emotional Skill, and the Marriage “Problem”(22:40) – Why Redefining Monogamy Misses the Point(23:52) – Primal Community, Historical Sharing, and Relationship Evolution(26:25) – Power, Parenting, and the Tribe Model(28:10) – Navigating Codependence and Hyper-Independence(30:02) – What Makes Commitment Meaningful?(32:24) – Sexual Openness vs. Emotional Loyalty(35:45) – Emotional Risk in Bi and Open Relationships(38:06) – Monogamy, Control, and the Illusion of Security(41:00) – Trauma Bonds and the Illusion of Emotional Safety(43:12) – Savior Complexes and Emotional Rollercoasters(46:00) – Changing Others vs. Changing Ourselves(48:34) – Evolving Desires and Emotional Maturity(50:35) – Compersion, Jealousy, and Emotional Boundaries(51:32) – Final Reflections: Honoring the Conversation, Not Condemning the PeopleFollow UsJonathan https://www.instagram.com/jroklen/Rachel https://www.instagram.com/ecomprincess/