How can you go about asking him to do a 69? - Answers

The key to having a good sex life is being able to discuss your fantasies and preferences with your partner. To begin with this can be embarrasing, however the more comfortable you are discussing sex with them, the more you are both able to explore each others desires. You should explain to your partner that this is something which you want to try, and maybe something that would be a real turn on for you. This is something probably easier done over the phone, or in a situation in which you are most comfortable. Often when I'm talking to my partner on the phone, she will ask me "Is there anything you really want to try...?" Maybe you should ask him, get him to divulge his dirty fantasies, as this could make you feel more confident and secure about asking him to 69 with you. You may even find he shares the same thoughts on the subject.