Empowering Relationships with John Kai Wallis

Listen to this episode from Be Free With Dee on Spotify. In this episode, I sit down with John Kai Wallis for a deep and thought-provoking conversation on the complexities of relationships. We explore how love mapping helps align to the right connection, why understanding the 5 personality patterns is crucial, and how nervous system regulation is often misunderstood & misused in today’s self-help culture.We discuss anger as a healing tool, chronic illness within the leaving pattern, and John’s fascinating take on “the fates.” Together, we dive into how body psychotherapy can reconnect you with your core self, restoring empowerment and sovereignty.Other themes we unpack include:- The role of suffering in growth and transformation- Polygamy and alternative relationship dynamics- The limitations of dating apps in fostering authentic intimacy- How ADHD and neurodivergence often relate to trauma- Why animals can sometimes replace relationships and keep us stuck in patterns- What a truly healthy relationship should look and feel likeThis is a powerful conversation for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness, healing, and more authentic connection in love and life.If you would like to follow Johns work, work with John or join his groups, you can do so on the following platforms: Youtube @johnkaiwallis Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/18VMSi2AFv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Instagram @johnkaiwallis Website www.johnkaiwallis.lifeSubstack: https://johnkaiwallis.substack.com/