Rewire the Nervous System to Become the One You’ve Been Waiting For with Sheleana Aiyana

Listen to this episode from HEAL with Kelly on Spotify. What if the triggers in your relationships weren’t problems — but portals to healing? In this heart-opening episode of HEAL with Kelly, best-selling author and Rising Woman founder Sheleana Aiyana returns to explore the deep, layered work of healing attachment wounds, breaking generational cycles, and cultivating conscious relationships — from the inside out. Drawing from the powerful insights in her book Becoming the One and the Becoming the One Guided Journal, Sheleana shares the truth so many of us need to hear: real healing doesn’t happen in the mind alone. From nervous system regulation to somatic presence, she explains how we can’t think our way into safety — we have to feel our way there. Whether it’s romantic partnership, friendship, parenting, or sitting with our own emotions, Sheleana invites us to return to the wisdom of nature, our bodies, and our breath as the most reliable guides. We unpack why we attract partners who mirror our deepest wounds, how to navigate the messy but meaningful stages of relationship, and what it actually means to co-create our lives with humility, presence, and heart. She also speaks to the power of repair in parenting, the importance of conscious friendships, and how crisis points —like breakups, breakdowns, and grief — can become the compost that nourishes our deepest growth. If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you understand but can’t seem to change, this conversation is the medicine. Tune in and remember nothing in nature blooms before its time — and neither do we. LINKS Sheleana Aiyana Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ Sheleana Aiyana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/ Becoming the One on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4dHMVG5 Becoming the One Guided Journal: https://amzn.to/3FB3oza Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices