Ep #31: Connecting vs. Attaching: The Shift That Will Change Your Love Life

Listen to this episode from The Secure Love Club Podcast on Spotify. In this episode, I’m sharing an interview I did with my beautiful friend Hillary McVeigh — Human Design teacher, Retreat Facilitator, Certified Coach, intuitive, and the kind of woman who will lovingly see straight into your soul.Before we even hit record, she pulled up my Human Design chart (Vessel of Love, Generator 2/4 for my HD lovers) and read me like a book. Then we went deep into all things dating, love, and self-worth.In this episode, we talk about:• The real difference between connecting with someone and attaching yourself to them (and why most people have it backwards).• How to stop morphing into who you think someone wants you to be — and start dating as your authentic self.• My red, orange, and green flag framework to help you stop abandoning yourself in relationships.• Why your nervous system can get hooked on toxic “push–pull” dynamics and how to break free.• How to keep your independence (and attraction) alive in long-term love.• The sneaky influence of the “male gaze” on how we see ourselves — and what changes when you drop it.This ep is jam-packed with moments that will have you rethinking the way you show up in love — whether you’re single, dating, or deep into a relationship.🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!EPISODE WITH HILLARY ON MY PODListen here!CONNECT WITH HILLARY!You can connect with Hillary on Instagram, stream her Designed As You Podcast, and find out more about working together here.MIMI SOCIAL MEDIAConnect with Mimi on Instagram here! Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me on Instagram and let me know!